How much do you share with your husband about things that go wrong at home and he's deployed?
How much does he share about what goes on "over there"?
Do you wish he shared more or less? Does it help you to have more to worry about?
I hear a lot after the fact, when Gunner returns home, but not a lot while he is gone. Each time his vehicle has hit an IED, he has told me, because he doesn't want me to hear it from someone else.
I do tell Gunner what is going on at home too. He knows I like to vent, and he also knows that I will take care of it, so he doesn't ever worry about it. I'll let him know when he needs to worry!
I know there are some people that hide a lot from the spouses, and others that share way too much.
How do you handle it all?
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